Kai and I have been through so many things already during the less than three years that we’ve been together. I’m not just talking about the typical getting-to-know-you relationship adjustments but also some real serious, tough and life-changing situations that could make or break couples. For those of you who’ve read about our story, you’d know by now that it was so easy falling in love with him but it was hard getting into the relationship because I had just come from the break up of my marriage. Because of that, I’d say the greatest thing I’ve done for our love was to give it a chance. It was the scariest decision I’ve made in my life coming from the position I was in at that time. I didn’t know what will happen with us in the future but I just followed my heart and I have never been happier.
Since then, I’ve done other big things for love that I would never have considered doing before, namely:
- move out of the city I love to live with Kai in the suburbs (This is a very big deal for me because I’ve been such a big city girl, living in a condo within a busy business strict for so long that I never really wanted to move into the typical suburb where everything is well ….. quiet and boring. But I’ve since learned that this was exactly what I needed.)
- have another baby after the age of 30 (For so long, my plan was to have as much kids as I wanted to have during my twenties and stop having babies by the time I turn 30. That was because I was hoping to retire early. But look at me now…. 38 weeks pregnant at 32 years old and I’m actually really looking forward to having this baby. It makes me happy knowing that I’m making one of Kai’s biggest dreams come true.)
I’m sure that a lot of other challenges will come our way, which will involve some form of sacrifice. However, it’s not something I dread. I guess, being happy about your life does that to you. Kai has made me a better person and that makes it easier to give my all to him. He deserves it after all.
That’s a lot like my husband and I. I’d been a friend of the family’s for a long time, and he and I had only just started to get to know eachother after he and his wife split up. They were married very young because of the accidental pregnancy of my step-daughter. After they reluctantly got married, he swore he’d never want to have any more children. But when we met, he couldn’t wait to start a family… two years into our marriage, we have two beautiful babies — lol and just the other day he was saying to me that he’s starting to already miss my pregnant belly. It’s funny how finding the right person can completely change your plans!
Oh yeah, and thanks for the award! That’s so sweet 😀
wow so nice to hear that story of yours. That is really remarkably the sweet one.. Happy GT
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that was very brave of you…
as long as we are hand in hand with our beloved, everything else is easy.
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hi mommy janice, it’s great to know that God really has someone in store for us. glad that u already met your kai! 🙂
thanks for dropping by my site, btw! how i wished that my last minute changes was like yours. hehe! but everything’s ok now, got my admission slip already! really excited now and excited for you too! 🙂
good luck to us!
you were very brave to take the risk to love again, and that risk paid off. i can sense you’re very happy where you are right now 🙂
excited for your delivery! but i’m sure nobody else is as excited as kai 🙂